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And greetings from on board AC flight 103 🛩 from YYZ to YVR!
Calgary to visit family last week, Vancouver to attend our annual CAPS convention this week – thank goodness this jetsetter loves flying as much as I do! Although I have to say it’s also taking a toll on my holiday preparations 😳.
I’m diligently trying to write my Christmas cards on the plane 💌 , making lists for two back-to-back parties I’m hosting next weekend, and getting a wee bit stressed about the fact I only have but a few small stocking stuffers so far in the gift 🎁 department.
I do love this time of year, yet as exciting as it is, it can also get pretty busy and pretty stressy pretty quickly.
And it’s all too easy to get caught up in feeling the need to decorate à la Martha Stewart, make home-baked goods better than Betty Crocker, or show up at every holiday party perfectly primped in a new frock 👗 like you’re like the biggest socialite on the block (with a bottomless bank account, to boot!)
I don’t know about you, however it makes me a tad anxious just thinking about it!
Isn’t this time of year supposed to be the most peaceful and joyest of all 🤷♀?!?
In order to avoid the overwhelm and maximise the merry, here are five tips that might help:
1. Detach From Expectation.
It’s tough not to have some vision in your head of what the holiday season is supposed to look like. You have your family traditions 🛷, your special rituals, your festive 🎄festivities. That being said, don’t be too attached.
Be okay with going with the flow this year, and being open to however the season unfolds.
2. Keep it Simple
So you haven’t been able to get 200 home-made Christmas cards out there yet? It’s okay! Perhaps you send a digital card, a personalized video, or boycott cards altogether (you can blame the postal strike!)
Maybe you opt to buy pre-decorated cookies 🍪 instead of making them yourself. Or you choose to recycle a dress from last year. No one will hate you, promise! (they likely won’t even notice…)
3. Just Say NO!
You do not have to be invited to all of the fancy 🍾 galas, festive mixers or holiday potlucks. And even if you are, you certainly don’t have to attend them all. Not only will you drive yourself crazy trying to be everywhere at the same time and all things to everyone, chances are you won’t even be present enough to enjoy yourself, anyway!
And with respect to anything additional that’s being asked of you, be honest and get real with yourself. Is it necessary? Is it a priority?
Be okay with saying NO (even if it’s to your family or closet friends!) and start saying YES to yourself and your needs.
4. Get Clear on Your Priorities
Don’t succumb to the pressure 🤦♀ to entertain and decorate better than you see in the magazines or on TV, or to do either at all!
Make a list of your non-negotiables, and be realistic about what’s possible. Who do you really want to connect with this holiday season? What activities will you actually enjoy doing? Schedule who and what’s most important, and look at anything or anyone above and beyond as a bonus.
5. Take Care of YOU!
Put yourself at the top of the food chain. Seriously though!
Make sure you’re getting enough sleep. Enough fresh air. Enough vitamins and greens.
And then book in some ‘ME TIME.’ Get a massage. Go for a walk. Reserve a spot on your fave couch and curl up with a cup of tea ☕ or a nice book. Get your nails done 💅. Have a bubble bath 🛀.
Choose something that relaxes you, makes your heart smile, that is only for you. It’s NOT overrated. It’s important. And even moreso than ever at this time of year. Even better, schedule weekly ‘me time’ and treat it like a serious appointment.
🎶🎵 “It’s the most wonderful time of the year…” 🎵 🎶 Or at least it could be! So let’s ensure it is, and it stays that way!
If you’re serious about avoiding overwhelm and saying no to competing with Martha Stewart or Betty Crocker, detach from expectation, keep it simple, just say no, get clear on your priorities, and take care of YOU.
Let me know which of these ideas you’re going to take on!
I can’t wait to hear from you in the comments below.
Have a FAB week!