This morning, I had a croissant.
Cue gasp here.
Now it’s not that croissants are all that bad – everything in moderation as my mother would say. It’s just that I unfortunately have certain food intolerances and knew I would pay for it later (which I did!) and yet I couldn’t help myself.
I had just landed in Paris and it seemed like the right thing to do.
When in Rome, when in Paris, or even when you’re at home or perhaps sitting on a patio, porch, or balcony.
Wherever you may be – physically or energetically – sometimes the moment calls for something.
Give into it.
Don’t procrastinate on joy.
It’s summertime, after all. And I don’t know about what it’s like where you are right now, however in Toronto these Summer days are both beautiful and short lived. And so we need to ensure we are experiencing, enjoying, making the most of the moments.
One of the things I’m working on is my ability to trust, let go, and simply go with the flow. And to be here now. And to notice all of the amazingness that exists right here, right now, instead of looking ahead to the next thing or moment.
I spoke at a women’s conference a few months ago, and one of the other speakers was the incredible Sam Horn. And one of the lines that really stuck with me was this one:
“These are the golden days. These are the golden days.”
A friend recently introduced me to the law of diminishing returns. Now in economic terms, where it is readily used, in simple terms refers to investments you make that begin to diminish as soon as you make them.
However when it comes to living your life, it basically means when the moment you’ve been looking forward to finally arrives, or the moment you get something you’ve really wanted for a while, or achieve something you’ve been working towards for some time, it slowly begins to lose it’s lustre.
And this theory also explains why more often than not, as soon as you arrive at your destination or achieve what you thought you wanted, you’re already looking toward to the next thing.
Be it the degree, the job, the car, the raise, the promotion, the man, the house, the dog, the baby.
Don’t procrastinate your joy.
I’m writing to you from the beautiful Alsace region of France, typing on a computer sitting in a random park I came across where I spotted some shade. We’re in the middle of a heat wave. I’m staying in a beautiful old chateau where my friends’ wedding will be held on Saturday. And, there is no AC nor wifi. I walked to the nearby restaurant hoping to be able to get a little bit of work done, only to find it was closed until dinner time.
My initial reaction was one of frustration. But then I chose something different. I threw off my flip flops, threw in my headphones, sat in the grass and started writing.
I’m finding it quite peaceful to be honest!
You only live once (YOLO!) and indeed these are the golden days.
Perhaps as soon as we stop looking forward towards the next thing that will bring us joy, we’ll be able to experience the joy available right here in this moment.
So whether the moment calls for a croissant, gelato, or being barefoot in the grass, say yes. Indulge. Give into the moment.
Don’t procrastinate joy.
And now I want to hear from you… how are you going to make sure you do NOT procrastinate on joy this week?!? I can’t wait to hear from you in the comments below.
Have a FAB week!