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Would You Rather be Right or Happy?!?

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My week in pics: ‘Remote Working,’ sailing, exploring beautiful beach town Jávea, Spain!

 

Would you rather be right or would you rather be HAPPY?

Happy Friday!

First and foremost, THANK YOU to each and every one of you for your support and kind words last week when I shared my big decision… it is very much appreciated.

And, while I am super excited to be in the beginnings of a new relationship, it doesn’t mean it’s been nothing but sunshine and rainbows every day! 

In fact, although we had our first lovely getaway this past weekend, and went to the amazing beach town called Jávea, we also had our first little ‘tiff.’

It reminded me of a line in The Course in Miracles: Would You Rather be RIGHT, or HAPPY? 

Whether it’s with a friend, a family member, a significant other, a work colleague…  chances are you’re going to find yourself in some form of conflict at some point or another.

I mean we’re only human, after all.

And yet both you, and me, have a choice as to whether fighting or conflict is really what we want!

Watch this week’s video to learn more about the epiphany I had during our first tiff, as well as 3 ideas YOU can implement next time you find yourself facing a moment of conflict. 

So, next time you find yourself wanting to raise your voice, slam a door, or give someone the silent treatment, consider these three ideas:

1. Ask yourself: Would you rather be right, or happy? 

2. Pick your battles.

3. Get to the Heart of the Matter (and you just may realize it’s the heart that matters, in the end!)

And get honest with yourself about the perceptions, judgements, stories – running around in your head.

 

I want to hear your thoughts, comments, commitments below or on You Tube!

 Have a FAB week!

 

Why I’m Leaving Remote Year: Radical Transparency

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Last night with Remote Year, saying goodbye to some of my Meraki Tribe… 

 

Why I’m Leaving Remote Year: Radical Transparency

Happy Friday!

Now I don’t know about you, however in the best of times I often have a hard time making decisions. Choosing what to wear or what to eat for breakfast is one thing, however making more complicated and difficult decisions is quite another!

And while there are proven techniques and strategies one can employ, sometimes it’s easier said than done.

So in a moment of radical transparency in action, I’m going to share with you the big decision I recently made, as well as what I did to help me get there.

Watch this week’s video to learn why I’ve left Remote Year, as well as the 3 tactics I used in order to come to this decision.

So the next time you’re faced with having to make an important decision, consider these three steps:

1. Explore all potential options. Create pros and cons lists, look at consequences…

2. Seek others options, however, trust your gut, too.

Don’t go overboard asking other people’s advice. Ensure you are able to get honest and quiet with yourself in order to listen to what feels the most right for YOU. 

3. Get honest with yourself. 

You may want to ask yourself the following questions:

  • What are my goals and/or priorities? And will this decision take me closer to, or further away from, my goals?
  • Where will I showing up as my best self?
  • What are my biggest values? And which decision is going to honour these values more than the other?

Although tough decisions can be tough, hopefully these strategies will help!

Now, as per usual, let’s keep the conversation going!

I want to hear your thoughts, comments, commitments over on the blog or on You Tube!

Have a FAB week!

 

3 Small Ways to make a BIG impact… 

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My Week in Pics: Delivering my ‘Spark Your G.E.N.I.U.S.’ workshop for locals, digital nomads & Remotes living in Valencia, ladies Who Brunch (on the beach!), visiting beautiful Peniscola, trying to maximise time playing and dining with friends in my fave city on Remote Year thus far…

 

3 Small Ways to make a BIG impact… 

Happy Friday!

…as I sit here typing at La Mas Bonita ~ the cutest little cafe and restaurant overlooking the beach (tough life, I know!) here in Valencia. 

Now I know what you must be thinking.

‘You are SO lucky.’

And I am, it’s true. At least, I feel very fortunate to be able to be working, traveling, and exploring so many beautiful places around the globe this year.

Although that doesn’t make me immune to being affected by everything happening in the world.

Arguably, it’s helped me to realize just how small this world really is.

Having lived in the area of Mexico City at the beginning of the year that was hit the hardest by the recent earthquake, having clients and friends in Turks & Caicos that were there for both Hurricane Irma and Hurricane Maria, and being in a group that is not sure whether it’s safe to visit Bali with the impending volcano eruption, what is happening in the world is very real and very close to home.

And it’s not just climate change. It’s the state of the political scene. It’s the wars and the fighting. It’s the poverty. It’s the racism. It’s the injustice. The list goes on…

It’s scary. And it’s hard to know what to do. And so I, you, we ~ sometimes stay stagnate, complacent, frozen.

It’s overwhelming to know where to start. And yet it doesn’t have to be.

Watch this weeks video to help you see perhaps it’s not about what you can DO, but rather who you can BE.

Sometimes with everything going on in the world, it’s hard to know what action to take, or where to start. 

And yet you can:

  • Be even MORE of who you already are
  • Choose ONE cause to support. To stand up for. To fight for.
  • Take small actions and recognise they make a BIG difference

What are you going to take on this week?

Let’s keep this important conversation going. I want to hear your thoughts, comments, commitments in the discussion over on Facebook! 

Have a FAB week!

P.S. Women Living Big is EXPANDING! We are actively looking for Ambassadors who are interested in  opening up a local chapter of WLB! Got ya excited? APPLY HERE.

Why ‘Radical Transparency’ Will Change Your Life

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My Week in Pics: Saying goodbye to gorgeous Portugal, spending a lovely weekend exploring beautiful Barcelona and meeting up with friends from back home, witnessing with complete awe Gaudi’s architectural magnificence, inspiring workshop with TedX speaker Jodie Rogers, enjoying another week in Valencia and some glorious sunsets…

 

Why ‘Radical Transparency’ Will Change Your Life.

Happy Friday!

…from where I sit, back in beautiful Valencia.

I have to say I’m loving this city – and the Spanish culture in general. I’m not sure I want to leave next week!

On another note, I was recently introduced to this term, radical transparency. And as someone who is all about openness, vulnerability, and authenticity, I was curious to learn more.

And after I got what it was all about, I decided to take it on.

Although not always easy, I’m committing to living with more and more radical transparency each and every day.

Watch this week’s video to learn what radical transparency is all about, as well as 3 benefits that just may change your life!

Yes, perhaps some bold promises in there.
And yet I really do believe when you take on this idea of radical transparency, you will:
  • Build deeper, stronger, more meaningful relationships 
  • Live your life with even greater purpose 
  • Feel FREE…. to say what you want, and to be who you are
SO… are you going to take it on this week? I hope so!
And then I want to hear from you in the discussion on Facebook! 
Have a FAB week!

P.S. Women Living Big is turning 2 on Sunday! AND, we’re going to have a little *LIVE* on-line celebration… and we also have a VERY exciting announcement! Tune in on SUNDAY, SEPT. 24th at 1pm EST to the WLB FB Group and be the first in-the-know!

5 Strategies to Stay Up When Life Kicks You Down

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My week in pics: Exploring all of the beauty and splendor that is Croatia, while on board Sail Croatia’s lovely Magellan, and making a whole lot of special new friends for life… I think this country may have stolen my heart!

It’s Always Sunny in Croatia!
5 Strategies to Stay Up When Life Kicks You Down

Happy Friday!

And greetings from beautiful Hvar, Croatia. A country I honestly didn’t previously know a whole lot about, and have since fallen in love with.

Honestly. And if the pictures do it even a little bit of justice, no doubt you can understand why!

It’s true I am extremely fortunate to be travelling the world right now. That being said, travelling is not always sunshine and rainbows.

Sometimes travelling can be tough. And sometimes bad things can happen.

Last week, I had my backpack taken while on the the train from Budapest, Hungary to Split, Croatia. In the moment I went from complete panic to denial, anger, frustration, guilt… and I’ve played the ‘what if’ game way too many times. However I’m now in a very different place ~ dare I say I am actually at peace with it all. (But really, did you have to take my journal?!?)

In this week’s video, I share the story of having my backpack taken, as well as the 5 strategies I’ve used to be able to come to a place of peace.

WATCH IT NOW!

Again, here are the 5 strategies:

  1. Shift Your Mindset
  2. Seek Comfort in Community
  3. Take Action
  4. Look For The Lessons
  5. Find Gratitude

Next time something not so great happen in your life, which of these five strategies are going to implement? Or do you have other ideas? I want to hear from you!

Have a FAB week!

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Anchor Down! 3 daily must-dos to stay grounded (and sane!) regardless of what’s happening in your world.

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My week in pics: Enjoying special famjam time in Holland (even went to the same amusement park with my cousin and her kids as I went to as a child… talk about nostalgia!), visiting my 93-year-old step grandmother whom I haven’t seen in years, discovering beautiful Budapest and taking in all it has to offer – from sunset cruises to gorgeous views to Turkish style baths to rose-shaped gelato and more!  

Anchor Down! 3 daily must-dos to stay grounded (and sane!) regardless of what’s happening in your world.

Happy Friday!

As you likely know by now, I’m currently living out of a suitcase. Now although I’ve been ‘traveling’ in the sense of working remotely since January, this month I have ventured off on my own. Which means I have no home base, have not unpacked, and am in a new city (and a new bed!) every few days.

As exciting as that sounds – then again, maybe not! – I’m realizing I also need certain things to keep me grounded and anchored as each day looks different than the last.

So today, I want to share my three daily rituals, activities, non-negotiables. Adopt these practices and you, too, will stay anchored and grounded regardless of where you may be in the world, or what may be happening in your world. 

Watch it now!

So, what are YOUR rituals, habits, and daily activities you’re prepared to try on? Or what are your current daily non-negotiables?

I want to hear from you. And besides, sharing is caring! So share your ideas, and share this video with a friend or colleague you think could benefit.

Have a FAB week!

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